Relieve Stress between you & those you love...
Here is a quick technique to help you relieve any minor or major stress between you and your Valentine (or anyone whose relationship is special to you--not just your spouse or significant other, but also important friends, colleagues, children, siblings, parents, etc.)
This 4-6 minute activity is from the Interactions section of SOS: Switch Off Stress. Let's say that you and this person have some tension between you that you'd like to resolve. The below exercise while help you transform your own emotions so you come to the next interaction with less emotional baggage.
How to Do SOS #53
Transform Negative Emotions
Many emotions we consider
“negative” can actually teach us important things about ourselves. This technique shows you how to make negative emotions less overwhelming by treat them as if they were simply raw energy. You know from experiencing and observing your own emotions how quickly they can change; often coming and going naturally, like waves on the
ocean. What you can do with this SOS
tool is to befriend the full range of your emotions so they can help you learn about yourself and improve your cherished relationships.
I recommend the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) as a
way to learn from and release “bad” feelings because it is so simple, fast and portable and simple. EFT
will quickly mutate any fear, anger, anxiety, jealousy that's hampering your important relationships.
There are many schools of thought about how
to do EFT; I urge you to adopt the instructions that most appeal to you. Basically, the EFT process involves tapping lightly
on a series of meridian points while making statements to release whatever
negativity you’re feeling. To start, you will do a few rounds of statements that serve
to first admit and surface, then release all the negativity you’re
experiencing. ("I am so angry about what s/he said." "I'm going to ignore him/her and see how THAT feels!") The second phase of EFT is to complete a few rounds that replace those snarky statements with neutral or more positive declarations. ("I have always admired him/her, and want to do my part to make it right between us again." "I allow for the
The common points for tapping are: outside edge of
hands, top of head, inner eyebrow, side of eye, below eyes, under nose, under
mouth, collar bone, under arm. You will
see that there are many variations of EFT; simply choose what makes the most
sense for you.
- A fun introduction to EFT points (4 minutes)
- Stress and anxiety (4 minutes)
- Stress and anxiety #2 (5-6 minutes)
- And a special tapping just for Valentine's Day: Love Magnet!
(Note:
All emotional release techniques need to be done where you will not be
disturbed, nor will you disturb others. Most cultures are uncomfortable with
emotional release, so be certain other people won’t try to “rescue” you from
your healthy transformation of emotions.)
What SOS #55 Can Do for You
And the good results are mounting. For example, there
is a 5-year study at John Hopkins where researchers are using EFT for returning
soldiers with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). At the three-year mark, it
reported a staggering 63% reduction in symptoms. EFT has also been used
successfully with victims in war zones, natural disasters, violent crimes, and
mass shootings. So…just think of what it could do to reduce the discomfort you're feeling between you and your Valentine!
Here are additional EFT videos and websites for you to
explore: Try it on
Everything; www.TappingSolution.com;
www.EFTUniverse.com; Tap for
Health blog.
GOOD LUCK!!!
If you want to help your Valentine(s) enjoy some stress-relief, go here to purchase SOS: Switch Off Stress (only $8.99 for this 258-page-equivalent "evaBook")--or click here if you want to read more about what SOS can do for you and all those you love.
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